How did you learn to sew?
Why are some kids interested in sewing and others aren't?
My husband and I have 2 daughters who are 3 years apart. I find it interesting that our younger daughter loved to create and sew from the time she was quite little. Our older daughter didn't have one speck of interest. I can't begin to guess why they are so different.
Then I wonder why I became an avid, passionate sewer in my early youth and teenage years, and my sister (2 years younger) only sewed when it was a mending emergency and she couldn't convince someone else to do it for her. Our mother was a stay-at-home mom who sewed clothing for us and for herself from the time we were very young, as well as doing lots of home decor sewing, so we both had a ready and willing mentor.
What motivates children to sew?
I don't actually remember learning to sew. I suspect it was through "osmosis" by observing mom and asking questions (which I was famous for). Mom allowed my sister and I to try to sew whenever we expressed interest. When we were about 10 or 12 years old and clothing suddenly became very important, she encouraged us to sew in an unusual way. She shopped with us for new school clothes in September which she paid for, but if we wanted additional clothing during the school year, we had to buy our own. There was a twist, however. If we were willing to SEW something to expand our wardrobe, she offered to pay for the fabric, pattern and necessary notions and, of course, help us through the process. I hated to spend my hard-earned baby-sitting money, so I jumped at the chance to make new clothes without having to pay for them. I made many of my clothes at that time. My sister wasn't hooked.
At one time sewing class was mandatory in most school systems.
By the time I reached 7th grade with its mandatory sewing class, I was already fairly adept at sewing. We were required to make an A-line skirt. A-line skirts had gone out of style 5 years earlier, so as far as I was concerned this experience was nothing short of a waste of my time. I knew I wouldn't be caught dead in the skirt even if it did come out well. None of the girls wore their skirts, even the girls who had learned to sew for the first time. I suspect the teacher turned more girls away from sewing than she motivated or encouraged them. I gave my skirt to my sister. Now that I think about it, maybe that's why she never became a sewer!
What was your first experience with sewing? Did you have any stumbling blocks along the way, or did you find inspiration and encouragement in your learning years? Did your motivation change over the years, and if so, why?
Posted on Apr 20th, 2010 in sewing, online extras


























Comments (52)
Posted: 12:53 pm on December 10th
Posted: 7:08 pm on September 16th
She would always tell me that I had great potential. I really enjoyed sewing and learnt quite quickly. I learnt to sew with commercial patterns. I use to make simple dresses, skirts, trousers and tops for family and friends in my teen's but stopped sewing for a long time. I only recently took it up again.
The one thing which my teacher repeated time and time again was "girls I should be able to wear your garments inside out without anyone batting an eyelid" she always insisted on perfect finishing. By the way the first garment I made was a pair of yellow cotton shorts.
Posted: 10:00 am on September 16th
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Posted: 12:25 am on July 5th
I'm a desendant of the White family I have the patent of the sewing machine I don't remember it but my Aunt left it to me.
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Posted: 4:29 pm on April 28th
My Mom taught me a love of good fabrics. She did not believe in spending time and effort making garments out of inferior fabrics. Fortunately, we lived in an area with many textile mills, so it was easy to find good quality fabric at a bargain price.
Over 50 years have passed since my Grandmother taught me how to thread a needle for the first time, and I love sewing today more than ever. One of my passions now is teaching others to sew. I've taught friends, co-workers, and young girls at my church. I cannot imagine life without the ability to sew!
Posted: 11:33 am on April 28th
Posted: 8:41 pm on April 27th
She was a "Piece Worker" and a "Peace Worker." In the factories of Beacon, New York (it was a textile and hat producing town) she made felt hats, rubber rafts in WW11, and everything else that came down the assembly line. My memories are filled with hours and hours of learning to sew with her. Me, I sat on the floor next to her so she could follow my hand sewing progress. I had to over if it wasn't right, learning patience and staying with something from start to finish! She always had time for me. Poodle skirts came into vogue and she loved them! I didn't, but I had two of the best! Someimes I would wake up and there would be new matching outfits for me and my "Victoria Doll." Very Sweet memories.
Posted: 10:38 am on April 27th
Keep on sewing!!!
Posted: 8:37 am on April 27th
Posted: 12:23 am on April 27th
while i can't quite call myself a seamstress like she was, i guess i learned to be the sewing person i am today from her by osmosis because i never remember sitting down with her to to learn or be taught many of her tricks. i now am sorry i didnt ask more in the way of instructions, for a lot of her tailoring and stitching secrets left when she passed away many yrs ago. i sorely miss, for instance, handing her one of my worn coats, showing her how the lining was torn or worn. in no time at all she would hand it back to me, fully lined in a much better way, using a beautiful fabric that made the garment much more fashionable than it already was!
from my grandmother i learned my love of fabrics. she was a wealth of knowledge! she and i would go "downtown" to one of the major department stores of the time, into the basement where the yardage department was located. we could spend hours there, perusing patterns, matching them to the available yardages. she knew all of them, how they were best used and could readily determine the finest "hand!" oh, and the notions department! why, we could spend half the afternoon just looking over the buttons, trims and zippers, not to mention linings, threads and other embelishments we might fancy! after we had made our purchases, she and i would go to have lunch at the fancy hotel across the street . it was a delicious time!
i began using my mother's sewing machine when i was sometime in my teens, when i took a sewing class in jr high school. (didnt we all back then?) after that my mother, who wasnt very interested in the craft, let me move the machine into my room. i sewed a lot then, experimenting, not always successfully, building my own wardrobe. later, as a young woman, wife and mother, i sewed for my home and my daughters. my 2 girls wore these creations until they were old enough to protest and demand their clothing have designer labels in them like every one else had! it was then i rather gave up the craft.
now, many years later, i have rediscovered the unique love and joy i once felt so long ago! a recent forced retirement due to a disability has caused me to look within myself for "something to do." i opened up my old-time friend (yes i had kept the same machine i got as a young bride!) and found it too now suffered from the disability and a cantankerous-ness of old age! so my husband, bless him, bought me a new one! its not fancy but it has varied stitches and works at my command with little of the touchiness the old one had. and now i am creating again after all these years. and i love it, again. i have taken to making clothes and accessories for my three little chinese crested dogs, and, lately i have found true delight in creating pocketbooks and purses and accessories! some of my designs are downright beautiful, if i do say so myself! dare i dream of becoming an actual seamstress?
Posted: 9:56 pm on April 26th
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Posted: 7:14 pm on April 26th
Singer's. I remember there was this other girl with an unusual first name and she explained the reasoning for her name. Her parents took the first letter of her other
sibilings and created a name for her. I remember during the 1980's I saw her name on the roster of a big decorating/crafts magazine. Believe me no one in the
world would have a name like that! So maybe that sewing class
propelled her into a career when she grew up.
Posted: 6:56 pm on April 26th
Posted: 5:15 pm on April 26th
Posted: 4:07 pm on April 26th
She begged me to teacher her how to sew. Thus she did allot of mending for the "rich girls." And she sewed dresses for their graduation ceremony called a Daisy Chain. She made enough money to go on an overseas vacation in 2000. When
I turned 50 my husband asked me what I wanted? I quickly replied, "A serger." He said, "what?" And I said come with me. I am now on my third serger. Love it and have done so many home dec. things etc. Still need a sewing machine and
hand sewing........ I am amazed at how many people were turned off my sewing with their 7th grade home ec. class.
What a wasted opportunity. I have my mothers hand sewn
samplers with every stitch imaginable. (b. 1904) And completed when she was 12. I can't imagine kids today doing such intricate work. I had a cub scout group once and taught them how to sew on buttons. I still have my son's sampler of buttons and intend to give it to his wife who can't sew on a button! I must have come from another world.
Posted: 3:33 pm on April 26th
It appears to me that sewing might succeed in the schools again if it is taught to both boys and girls, as a survival skill. Shouldn't everyone be able to sew on a button or mend a crucial hole? Sailors and soldiers are taught these skills, and they are consistent with greener and thriftier living, both of which are being thrust upon us whether we like it or not. At one time in my life I thought of my cooking and sewing skills as "poverty survival" skills, but now I see them as valuable assets for our future. My current project is a gorgeous robe for a friend who is facing very delicate heart surgery, and her husband and I are surprising her with a custom robe. It feels so good to be able to help her feel a little less hospitalized, a little more comfortable and feminine--pink Japanese print with peonies and pearlized snaps...
Posted: 3:10 pm on April 26th
Posted: 2:39 pm on April 26th
I stuck to basic designs at first, can only remember maybe one PLAID outfit which I never wore, but everything else was certainly ok.(At least to me). Then as the family grew into teenage years, I stopped entirely. When I picked it up again a few years ago I found I had to get the book out to thread the machine.
Now at 70 I have a new machine, and am starting over again. My lack of self-confidence prevents me from going anywhere near a serger, but I have everything I could ever imagine needing in my machine. If there is a moral to this, it's don't let uncertainty stop you from trying new things, or you can be missing out on something you'll really enjoy.
I've loved reading all these stories, how can you not be inspired when you read them? Also love the idea about getting sewing tips on-line.
I hope the comments column continues, it's so interesting hearing others stories.
Posted: 2:02 pm on April 26th
enthusiastic about these skills which I took to other purposes of embellishment for clothing design, accesories, wall hangings and fabric sculpture.
I knock myself out with all the possibilities and the discoveries that I have made over the years. I learned so much, continue to explore, teach others and thank all others who have collected my work and those who support me in my quest to do my very best, over and over again.
Be stylish and enjoy your projects! Thanks for the opportunity to tell you my story.
Posted: 1:42 pm on April 26th
In high school we had Home Economics. I was blessed with an amazing teacher who saw the potential in a few of us and spent the summer between grades 9 and 10 teaching 4 of us tailoring. Because of her I can sew anything with confidence.
My daughter expressed an interest in sewing at very young age. At the age of six she made a quilt with my Mom. Together we made babydoll clothes from patterns and this March break she finshed the blouse she started at Christmas. The tradition will continue.
Posted: 1:27 pm on April 26th
When I was a lot older, I tried again, and I thought 'there has got to be more to this!' I read the pattern and saw that the seam allowance was 5/8 of an inch and thought well that makes sense, an actual measurement, not just what I feel like! I taught myself from the patterns and books, then at the ripe old age of 25, I returned home and taught my mum how to sew.
She had never had any training or read a book of any sort abut sewing, and she was totally amazed when I told her to do such things as iron the pattern before cutting, and having a uniform seam allowance. The first garment she made, we spent a few hours on it, then my dad poked his head in asking to see it. My mum told him it wasn't ready yet, and when he asked what was taking so long, my mum told him "because she is teaching me how to make a blouse, not a floor cloth" as all of her other endeavors had ended up as rags.
My mum now makes (and wears) most of her own clothes, even more than I do, and will tell that story to anyone who will listen!
Posted: 1:08 pm on April 26th
somewhere along the line I learned to quilt and now that is one of the things I really enjoy , also making dolls particulary Eleanor Peace Bailey dolls. If you like doll making and can take her class Do It!
Posted: 12:59 pm on April 26th
Now I make wearable art as handbags and evening wear. I love to handle fabric, play with colors, use my sewing machine, embellish fabric surfaces. I am thankful for the gifts and talents I was given.
Posted: 12:27 pm on April 26th
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Posted: 2:46 am on April 25th
By the time I was 13 I was making my own clothes, and changing up patterns. "Newberry's" (the "dime store") in Brawley, California would sell flat fold fabrics - usually in 3 and 4 yard increments for 25 cents a yard! By 16, I was "in business!" - when Aunt Norma hired me to sew my cousin Diane some straight skirts.
Posted: 9:03 am on April 24th
Posted: 6:15 pm on April 23rd
So, that summer, my mother came up with a rather simple yoked dress pattern (early 1960's) and some "material" as it used to be called and set me down to start sewing my first dress. After accomplishing the first one, I moved on with only slight bits of help for the second one. As I recall, they were both dress weight cottons, not like the quilt weight cottons of today and this is how I started.
Maybe I should say that I am the oldest in the family and my mom was a very busy mother of at least 4 of us by the time I was in the 5th grade, and eventually 7.
Posted: 2:02 pm on April 23rd
Sewing classes were no fun in school as I was way ahead of the class when I entered 7th grade sewing class thanks to my grammie. Mother never sewed. There I sat making an apron by hand when I was making dresses and things to wear at home. It was boring for me.
But somehow I got through all those sewing classes in school and here I am - still sewing.
Posted: 10:34 am on April 22nd
Thanks so much for all of your comments. Keep them coming!
April Mohr
Posted: 3:47 pm on April 21st
I'm fascinated to read about the younger generation who didn't have the advantage (if you choose to call it that--I'm not sure all of us considered it such at the time!) of in-school sewing classes, and mothers/grandmothers/aunts who sewed at home. It's inspiring to hear from those of you who have taught yourselves to sew without that support system. Although from what I'm seeing here, many of us, home-ec or not, are ultimately largely self-taught--because really, learning to sew is about diving in, giving yourself challenges, and accepting that there will be misses as well as hits. It's definitely a trial-and-error process, no matter what your background.
Posted: 3:13 pm on April 21st
My mother appreciated my help, but would not let me use her machine. In my 20's, my boyfriend at the time bought me an Elna. I loved the machine and married the guy some 12 years later! I started sewing almost immediately. In the beginning I used Burda magazine for the patterns, but I really needed more instructions and explanations than the ones provided there. In Europe, Burda has been for years the reference magazine for all sewers. Burda is a monthly magazine with some 40 patterns per month, the latest designs available, but bad instructions. So, after sewing series of sleeveless T-shirts, shorts and pocketless jackets, I stopped. I felt that I needed somebody to tell me how to sew better. It wasn't until I had my third child that I discovered simplicity patterns and books and a little later Threads magazine. Since then, I am sewing all weekends all the things I dream of. I sew for my family, my home, my kids and of course for myself. My mother and my granny leave in another country, but when I sew I feel as if they were next to me. Sewing allows me to test how fearless I can be and I love that! It also allows me to get better every day and for that I have to thank you, dear Threads.
Posted: 12:56 pm on April 21st
In the 70s my mother decided that my sister and I should learn to sew. I was 11, my sister was 13 and just starting junior high home ec with the grumpiest, most abrupt home ec teacher who ever lived. Mum thought that having a machine at home would help my sister get her homework done and would create a friendly sewing environment. We bought a basic machine at Sears and attended basic lessons there. I remember not really following what the saleslady was showing us - she wouldn't let us touch the machine (a floor model identical to the one we'd bought).
My sister did well in home ec, so the next year it was my turn. I hated the teacher - she was short-tempered and critical of the smallest things. I sailed through the cooking section, but floundered in the sewing. She made me rip out seams all day. I finally took the pencil case to my neighbor, a retired tailor. She quietly sewed the case for me and I handed it in. She got a B-!
Not until I was in my 20s and felt the desire for a machine of my own did I get back to sewing. I bought a machine and every volume of the Singer Sewing Series and taught myself. From those books I made bedspreads and tablecloths, curtains, a slipcover for the couch and then my wedding dress. I figured that "advanced" patterns simply had more steps; they would only be tricky if I was intimidated. Since then I've become a truly advanced sewer with a largeish vintage sewing machine collection and a stash that I love to cut up.
Oh, and my husband's Mum turned out to be a home ec teacher, as is my best friend's Mum. It's funny how the sewing world comes and finds us!
Posted: 11:47 am on April 21st
I think my middle school home ec teacher would be shocked that I am now teaching people how to sew. I have come a long way.
Posted: 6:56 am on April 21st
I first used a machine when I went to senior school and had to make an apron for cookery class.
All through college I made clothes just using a dressmakers dummy and creating my own look. I didn't use a pattern until I made my wedding dress.
I sewed all through my 20's for my kids and others and then suddenly stopped. I don't know why.
My son's fiancee, lamenting the price of wedding dresses had re-ignited my passion and I am happily creating wardrobes for us all again. thank you Threads for helping me re-learn this essential skill and by the way I agree that it should be compulsory for schools to teach needlework.
Posted: 6:47 am on April 21st
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Posted: 10:22 pm on April 20th
Posted: 9:36 pm on April 20th
Sewing was a necessity if I wanted any wardrobe diversity. We shopped in the seconds basement of Herbergers for fabric. I was sewing most of my own clothes by the time I was in Jr. High. Somewhere in my thirties, I took about 5 years off.
I have made many mistakes over the years. My favorite was running low on fabric for a dress. I still needed to cut out sleeves. A miracle occurred and a piece of fabric materialized by my bed (I was cutting out on the floor, and pun intended). I cut out the sleeve. Held up the rest of the leftovers only to recognize that the sleeves were cut out of the dress skirt front. If I recall, a Threads contributor had a similar story. You can't pay for that kind of learning.
My most recent disaster was taking a twirl at the circular jacket project posted here on Threads. Or maybe it was the 4th-time-is-a-charm zipper insertion in the straight skirt I made at Easter ... I'm still in my learning years --intermediate sewer with advancing skills which match my age.
My motivation for sewing now is creating. If all the stars align, I create a garment that is unique, comfortable, and fits.
Posted: 8:14 pm on April 20th
The fabric set for about 8 months and finally, i cut a little piece of fabric and sat down to figure out "how to sew". To my amazement, I remember how to thread the machine and make a bobbin. I sewed a straight line and was so excited. The next week, my boyfriend's mother told me she would help me sew. She was an EXCELLENT teacher and I was making and wearing garments in 2 weeks. It felt like second nature.
It has been about 7 or 8 months since I offically learned to sew. I make most of my clothing and sew for several people. I enjoy it so much. I get excited when i get home and have a chance to sit down and create "art".
Sewing was a dream that has become my passion.
Posted: 5:16 pm on April 20th
Posted: 3:51 pm on April 20th
I remember going fabric shopping and hating that experience. I wasn't sure how to read a pattern or how to visualize the garment made in a fabric I liked. My mother was better at this and I developed the talent over time.
My first home economics class was being taught at a beginners level, but the teacher knew that I had been sewing for three years at that point so she took all of that into consideration. I wan't the only student who had been sewing for awhile. We were paired with inexperienced sewers so we could halp teach! I thought this was smart for the teacher to do this.
I got to make a pair of pants and a simple jacket for my project where first timers were getting to make just pants or shorts. Another girl with experience got to make a lined dress!
Now that I'm back in the high school again as a teacher, I am floored at how little sewing is taught in most schools. Students have purchased kits that have the worst fabric I have ever seen! The patterns come with the kit. When did we decide the student didn't need to know how to read the back of a pattern?
I account for the decline in fabric stores to the fact that sewing has not been taught in the schools for so many years. I think that shows like Project Runway have created some renewed interest, but just as it took time for this decline to impact our communities, it will take time for it to impact the communities in the opposite direction. I find that there are students that want to learn, but they need to be taught by people with experience. The teacher we had here didn't sew for herself; therefore, the students constantly came to me asking questions the year I collaborated with the teacher. (I'm in special education.)
I think the technology used by the designers on Project Runway to create their own fabric would be cool to have in the schools. Our students today are not afraid of technology but embrace it. I can see students enjoying creating a fabric and then making something from that fabric.
It would be nice to see Threads offer competitions that target hgih school age groups only such as the ones that you have but are open to all readers.
Posted: 1:13 pm on April 20th
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