Who influenced or taught you the most when you started sewing?
WHO INFLUENCED OR TAUGHT YOU THE MOST WHEN YOU STARTED SEWING?
Sewing is a learned talent. None of us were born with sewing skills. We learned in a variety of ways—in school, from a friend or relative, from classes, and now from videos and other teach-yourself methods. In the latest issue of Threads (#156, August/September 2011), we asked our contributing authors (Kenneth D. King, Katherine Tilton, Mary Ray, and Norma Bucko) to tell us how they got started sewing. Each of these extremely talented individuals was inspired to sew because of someone else's influence. Their responses are fascinating and quite varied.
MY MOM TAUGHT ME
I was young when my mother first taught me to sew. She used to spend lots of time sewing and frequently made clothes for herself and for my younger sister and I, as well as home accessories. It would stand to reason that as a curious kid I would ask to learn to sew just like her.
SEWING WAS A SPECIAL EVENT
Following my request to learn, my mother turned sewing into a special event. It started with an outing to the local fabric store. The shop was nothing fancy by my standards today, but was spectacular to my child's eye. I looked through all of the pattern books and selected the perfect pattern. I suspect Mom worked hard to direct me toward something with simple lines that I would have success with. Next I selected the fabric—a long, laborious event. I'm certain I looked at every fabric bolt several times before making a decision—again I'm sure my mother helped to guide me, but she did so with care and patience, because I totally felt the decision had been all mine.
I WAS HOOKED!
I don't recall the final garment, but I do recall the hours of instruction that went into it. I learned to cut properly, mark successfully, and finally how to sew using her black, one-stitch Singer. I was hooked! By the time I took sewing in Junior High years later (required for all girls—no boys allowed), I was fairly adept at making just about anything. I thought my quality was flawless, although looking back, I suspect it wasn't quite that perfect. It's all in the eyes of the beholder—and in my youthful eyes, my garments were nothing short of works of art. I am truly grateful for such a solid sewing foundation. I have found tremendous enjoyment in sewing all my life and know that my early years had a lot to do with my growing and continued pleasure. Of course, working at Threads certainly helps to keep that passion alive!
HOW DID YOU GET STARTED?
Tell us who influenced or taught you the most when you started sewing? Were you a kid or an adult when you caught the "bug"?
Posted on Aug 9th, 2011 in sewing, garment, measuring, commercial patterns
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Comments (34)
Posted: 5:47 pm on November 16th
We would go shopping and see what the fashion trends were for the coming season, go to the "yard goods" department and select fabrics for a few garments. She taught me how to determine the quality of each fabric: content, weight, suitability to design, drape etc. She would picture in her mind the style for the garment and choose fabric according to her personal visualization and with her personal technique turn it into something out of Vogue magazine.
Mother never bought patterns, she took measurements and then applied them to newspaper to create the pattern. I was the envy of all my friends. I loved my wardrobe, it was always well made and a perfect fit.
She taught me about putting a gusset in slacks, and underarms to provide ease in wear.
I carried on the tradition and in high school made clothes for my youngest sister, 10 years younger than myself. I drew on my Mother's instincts for fashion and fabric. I still sew and my Daughters and Grandchildren, now all grown, still ask me if I can make them something special. It is my life pleasure, as was my Mother's, to sew.
She continues to inspire me to this day. She lived to the age of 92 and continued to sew on her treadle sewing machine until her vision started to fail at the age of 90.
The knowledge and skills I learned from her made me the seamstress I am today.
Thanks Mother!
Posted: 11:28 am on September 17th
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So who really taught me to sew? Myself! It was my drive, my desire, that has led to the incremental improvement in my skills. I was really tired of not having the freedom to make the things I wanted, and step #1: buy a sewing machine. I bought a fancy Janome with triple dials and 24 stitches, and I really do use more than 2!!! Not in that first year, and not in the second, but slowly, oh so slowly, I found the resources and the fortitude to learn more and more challenging techniques and make use of the weird attachments and higher letters on the stitch dial :P
Posted: 6:00 am on September 7th
Posted: 8:00 am on September 5th
If I hadn't been pushed to excel, I don't think I'd have the desire today, to learn more & want that professional look. That was 30+ years ago, and I'm still learning new things (even signed up for a beginning sewing class at the junior college this semester). I also teach sewing and quilting. So figure that one out. You can ALWAYS learn if you're listening.
Posted: 11:35 am on September 1st
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Posted: 12:41 pm on August 27th
Sewing and photography has been my retreat and love for years.
Posted: 8:06 pm on August 19th
Posted: 3:10 pm on August 19th
I have used my talent to share at church and love teaching anyone to sew.
My granddaughter will definetly go to Martha Pullens School for kids when she turns 8.
We both can't wait, more bonding I love it!!!
Posted: 1:12 pm on August 19th
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Posted: 3:12 pm on August 18th
The first was a summer school teacher. In the good old days, when school districts had money, you could go to summer school for fun. I took sewing when I was nine, and I had a wonderful teacher who showed us how to make a one-piece facing for sleeveless dresses and tops. She also taught us to cut through pattern notches and instead clip slightly into the seam allowance, saving time and making a much more accurate mark. I learned that pattern instructions weren't set in stone; that you could find and use workarounds and sometimes they were better than the original instructions.
The second was my great-aunt, who sewed for a living most of her life. She taught me how to match plaids and work with napped fabric. She explained to me what those funny little "grain" arrows on the pattern pieces were for. She taught me how to make tailor tacks, and I still prefer them. She taught me an easier way to put in zippers. But most of all, she gave me the confidence to tackle any project I put my mind to, and consequently I sewed things I probably wouldn't have tried if I had known better.
I figured out how to make a lined and piped slipcover without a pattern. I tailored a man's sportcoat. I made several wedding gowns and formals. I made my own jeans thanks to Calvin Klein's pattern for Vogue. I made my husband's dress and sport shirts. I made silk neckties. I made my children's clothes from the time they were born until they went to middle school. Everything came out beautifully.
Now I've started quilting - a new adventure. I enjoy piecing the tops, and I'm just starting to work on actual quilting. I learned how not to hand quilt by entering a small quilt I made for my youngest grandson in the local fair. I've done a couple of "stitch and ditch" quilts. I'd like to do some more intricate quilting, but lack of space is a real hindrance. But I have fun, and if the recipient is important, or picky, I send the quilt out to be finished by a professional. If not, I stitch in the ditch and try to be a little more daring with each one I do, space permitting.
Posted: 11:17 pm on August 17th
Posted: 11:10 pm on August 17th
Posted: 10:11 pm on August 17th
Posted: 10:01 pm on August 17th
Mom developed severe osteoporosis and started to make her own t-shirts and pants and was still making them until about five years ago. Mom just turned 90 on July 12th. Alzhiemers has taken much of her abbilities from her, but untill recently, I could ask Mom any question about sewing and crochet and know I was getting the best advise.
Posted: 6:31 pm on August 17th
The contest's emphasis on fine sewing and a well-constructed wool garment encouraged me to learn new techniques and try design challenges that were a stretch for my level of sewing.
I enjoy sewing more today than ever before and hope to continue learning and sewing for a long time to come.
Posted: 5:26 pm on August 17th
Posted: 5:24 pm on August 17th
My gramma who taught me the importance of really nice finishing. I still think of her every time I hear the crunch of scissors cutting fabric resting on a table top.
My Home Ec teacher, Lynn Couch, who taught me (and 27 other girls in my class - not to mention the other four 28 girl classes she had) how to use a sewing machine and who was always encouraging.
My beloved red-haired bubble-cut Barbie doll. I started sewing at age 12 making clothes for her. I used a couple of simple Simplicity patterns. I've been sewing for her off and on ever since. It's not the same doll (my little sister got her and an extensive wardrobe), and her clothes are way classier, and I use a sewing machine and I sew more than doll clothes - in fact everything - but dressing Barbie got me started.
Posted: 5:06 pm on August 17th
Posted: 5:02 pm on August 17th
My mother sewed clothes for our Barbie dolls andknitted them sweaters. All while raising six children born within nine years.
If I could only be half the person she is, I would be happy. I love you mom!
Posted: 4:49 pm on August 17th
One time as a very young woman I was looking for an outfit for a special occasion and I had something very specific in mind - which meant, of course, that it couldn't be found anywhere! So I bought a pattern (Butterick 4189 - c1986), the perfect fabrics and notions (a fine wool, a luxurious tapestry and elegant gold buttons), and a sewing machine (a Singer that only had about 6 or so different stitch functions), and just made it myself.
I still have to laugh at how fearless I was, and how lucky I was that it didn't turn into a huge disaster. I made a couple more menswear garments using a combination of pin tracing existing garments and fabric draping on the men themselves and then never sewed another stitch until about 3 years ago.
Once again I wanted something no one had for sale - curtains this time. I made 3 sets of self-designed curtains, decided I needed a more modern sewing machine, bought a pants pattern and was so pleased with myself that I haven't looked back since.
I'm still fearless, but I know enough now to expect the odd disaster.
Posted: 8:40 am on August 15th
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Posted: 9:35 am on August 13th
She made my clothes when I was very little.
On my 9th birthday I got this beautiful doll with a black and white stripped bathing suit. IT WAS A BARBIE DOLL!
I would gaze at the glorious clothes in the tiny catalog that came with the doll. I ask mom if I could buy some and she told me they were too expense. Why don't you make your BARBIE! some outfits.
This was the beginning of my adventure into the world of sewing. Mom was into this great hunt for the perfect doll dress also. She knew I would be taking off with this process if I liked it. Liked it! I loved it, the freedom to get any color, with any trim you wanted! Yeah, That was back in the sixty's. Yes, I took off with this sewing thing. I not only made great dresses for my BARBIE, but for me and my sisters. By the time I was 12 I had paying customers :), no babysitting for me.
I took Home Ec in junior highschool, ended up making my prom dress and two dress for the teacher.
I always wanted to go to design school, so I did in my adult years at night.
Yes, my mom helped me read and follow the patterns, but I was the one whom taught me. I love the creative freedown.
Working on husbands trench coat now.
Posted: 9:02 pm on August 11th
Posted: 9:36 pm on August 10th
I did quit sewing about 10 years ago, not having made anything other than the occasional repair. My sewing machine was sorely neglected and when I recently moved, I made the decision to throw it out. But out of the clear blue, my daughters gave me a very nice sewing machine as a belated birthday, mother's day gift about a month ago and I am having the time of my life. And I have been remembering the good times with my mom.
Posted: 1:39 pm on August 10th
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Posted: 10:56 pm on August 9th
Posted: 4:44 pm on August 9th
Once every year or so, Grandma stayed for a week or two and helped with the annual batch of PJs and whatever else needed sewing, separately from babysitting while another sibling was being added to the growing family of 7 kids. They even sewed or knit or quilted the hot pads used for cooking and canning the countless quarts of food that we consumed during the winter, not down-on-the-farm, but in suburban Chicago.
I still sew—personally and in my business, as they taught me - "It has to look as good on the inside as it does on the outside!"
Posted: 3:17 pm on August 9th
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