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Closures: “Finding My Own Way” by Joanne Fray

Threads #201, Feb./Mar. 2019
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In the early 1950s, when I was in junior high school, we were required to take sewing. My sewing teacher made it clear that there was only one right way to sew, and that was her way. Although our sturdy Singer machines could sew in reverse, the teacher was adamant that we were not to use reverse stitching to back-tack a seam. The only acceptable method was to pull the top thread to the underside with a pin and tie it in a knot with the bobbin thread. I fell behind my classmates, and the pressure to complete my apron on time became too great. Frustrated with tying the threads, I back-tacked to finish my seams. My transgression could barely be seen with a magnifying glass, but the teacher gave me a “C,” ruining my report card. I decided I would never again subject myself to the torture of fussing…

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  1. deelee45 January 12th

    I hated my sewing class in junior high. We were not allowed to use any "shortcuts". I don't remember what my grade was but I'm sure it wasn't and A. I didn't do anymore sewing until my late twenties when my daughter was born. With no one looking over my shoulder to do it the "correct" way, I was able to enjoy sewing. Now I sew everyday. Everything from quilting and embroidery to American Girl doll and Barbie doll clothes.

  2. User avater user-7097194 January 15th

    Great advice!

  3. user-1135543 January 28th

    Ditto, we must have had the same class.(teacher, also?) I did not want the only apron pattern she insisted on. I made a b-, also lousing up my grade points. I also threw it in the first trash bin I came to. Yes, it wasn't until children came along that I even considered sewing again. I do hope those first classes in sewing have better, nicer teachers. It makes such a difference.

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